I thought I was part of a solid friendship group until those bitches just completely turned their back on me. They act like they are my friend but they don't care about me, they don't care at all, I'm just the one who is there.
A couple of weeks ago basically everyone in this group was invited and went to this gathering and then all the girls that went stayed over that night. I was not invited to this and honestly, I was really fucking pissed off because I thought I was their friend. Then they have this group chat that everyone is in and guess what, I'm not in it. Also they have been planning stuff for Halloween and I haven't been added to the group chat about that are been asked to come. Also nobody ever asks me to go do something or have a sleepover.
Honestly I do find this upsetting because I've helped them all at different times and nobody ever thinks to mention me and they all talk about everything openly around me and I'm never invited or asked to do anything.
I will be honest here, I do sometimes email Headspace about things when I just don't feel happy or good so I will probably end up emailing them about this because I don't know what to do. I thought I had best friends but I do not want to be friends with people who don't care about me and just think that I'm 'there'.
Also another bit of information, tonight two of my 'friends' are having a sleepover and they put on social media wish you were here to another friend that is in the group and these are the girls that are being mention so I was just ignored.
I've just had a shower and I've decided what I'm going to do. I'm going to lose my streaks with the people in the group, not talk to them as much and make myself a bit distance and hang out with other friends that I have because I do not want to be hanging out with people who are just being an asshole to you.
This isn't a proper blogpost set up and I know I've had swear words in it, I do swear in real life and I'm just really annoyed because I thought these people were my friends
Aww Emma. Not going to lie that is really really tough. I went through a hard time myself friendship wise a couple weeks ago, but it didn't really compare to this. I think if this is happening you definitely need to move on and make more friends before they actually 'kick you out' themselves (which will be more painful than just leaving.. trust me). Hang out with other friends and once you're a bit closer with those friends, go shopping with them and have sleepovers.
ReplyDeleteYou may not like them as much as your past group at first, and I'll admit, it's going to be hard but trust me IT. WILL. GET. BETTER. This time when your 30, or 20 or even just in a couple years this period of time will not matter to you, that's what I keep thinking about and it helps.
Wishing you the best of luck!
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